Is this DICK worth dying for?

I had so many other entries to publish before this one, ,but I just couldn't wait.  I am bothered, annoyed even.  I understand that most of society does not share the same values as me, but I truly wish they did.  Am I saying there is a right or wrong?  No, but I think a little more decorum could be used when choosing a partner.  Just so that we are clear, I have had this convo with both men and women so before you jump all over me for having double standards, just know I don't.

I think in today's society of quick fulfillment, people have truly lost the principal or ideal of what sex, or love making is really about.  Most are using it as a quick self gratification tool and a distraction method and then wonder why they are left feeling so empty afterwards.  

Learn to value yourself and your body.  Sex is magical, special and a wonderful way not only to manifest but to also evoke creative abilities.  To me, sex is sacred and only to be shared with that one special person whom I will let enter my body as well my soul.  It's about connection on such a deep powerful level.

What annoys me is being able to clearly see how people are engaging in such a powerful act before even knowing the person on a soul level.  I understand that sex is essential to any given relationship but are you truly assessing who you are sharing your mind, body and soul with before you commit such a sacred act?  The answer I receive from most people is NO.

I am currently watching a series which is amazing, but what is troubling to see is how many partners each woman has chosen to commit such a loving act with, without even knowing who they are getting in to bed with.  

I,like you don't want to waste time, and the argument is always well what if I invest time into liking that person and then when we have sex it's terrible?  Yes that is a true concern, however if you have spent time getting to know the person on a soul level and if the sex is lacking, could you not work on it to see if you could make it better?  Don't get me wrong in my younger years I have walked away but I did make the effort to try and make things better first, but I did so because I knew the soul of the person I was dealing with and had established that he was worth trying for.

Sex changes everything in a relationship, it introduces new emotions and facets, so knowing the person ahead of time helps you determine if sex should even be introduced into the equation.  Women say they can handle being a friends with benefits but as soon as the act is done, emotions start flowing and the dynamics change.  However the better question is .. why would you want to be a friend with benefits?  Are you not worthy of more?  Are you not worthy of all your dreams and desires?  

Let me ask you this ... what's wrong with waiting?  What's wrong with old fashioned courting?  The innocence of holding hands, the first kiss, light petting, foreplay?  Does anyone complain about those things?  Let the anticipation build, are we all forgetting that the anticipation is usually the best part?  Maybe its just me and my naivety.  

I am not even going to discuss the topic of potentially sexually transmitted disease or fear of pregnancy.  But i'd be asking myself .. "is this dick worth dying for?",  If we are not both going to the doctors and receiving clean bills of health then wtf am I hoping into bed with you for ?

Do I miss certain things?  For sure .. but am I willing to force a connection with someone to get those things ?  HELL NO ...  my suggestion is you work on perfecting yourself and your masturbation techniques.  That will fulfill you in more ways then I will describe in this blog post.